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Artículo: 78- Solo Travel: Single, Sexy and SLIGHTLY Unhinged

78- Solo Travel: Single, Sexy and SLIGHTLY Unhinged

78- Solo Travel: Single, Sexy and SLIGHTLY Unhinged

As a seasoned sexy solo traveller, this article isn’t about safety; what to do or what not to do but rather the person you can become when you solo travel. As we embark on this journey of becoming, there are certain things a woman must do, and this is one of them. We often put a lot of power into other people in everyday life and on holiday. The constant consideration, the compromise, the unhinged birthday dinners and just the overall sacrifice for the people we care for. This is an opportunity to pour into yourself and refill your cup, not to mention the 100 different story lines that just make the plot more interesting.

 

1. No one is confined to their current situation.

Do you ever feel stuck, bored of the same routine? Travel is the fastest way to regain perspective. There is nothing better than immersing yourself in a different environment. Solo travelling every so often is so important because it allows you to make your own judgements, lean into what you like, and meet different people without being swayed by your loved ones. Discernment has been my buzzword of the week. How can you live a life where you make most of your decisions based on other people? There are only two of you who should be in the majority of your decisions; and that’s yourself and God. If you want to feel change, choosing yourself is where to start and you can do that with some alone time.

2. The Single and Sexy Part
My favourite thing to say is “You’ll never be this young and hot again!” Do you know the level of young and hot you are right now? What I find so crazy is that this statement applies every single day of your life. Whether you’re 26 or 50. Each day we get a little older but at some point this reality we are in will be the past. Essentially, there is no time to waste. ESPECIALLY when you’re single, don’t get me wrong, I love love, this is not a I hate men piece. I just feel that when you have no kids, no husband, you have a lot less to consider when going away. The act feels less selfish, and your decision should be a little easier.

3. Slightly Unhinged
For The Plot. Not every decision has to be planned out, sometimes book a trip mid crash out or go to dinner with a stranger in a different country that you’ll never speak to again. Do it for the plot. I like to think about the crazy stories I’ll tell my kids one day, and I can’t wait for them to be so amazed or in disbelief, because of the risks I took, the fun I had, to inspire them, and hopefully give them an idea of what it feels like to live a full life where you’re in control. Do it for the plot.
Send me a DM if you want to chat more <3
Use this week to take the wheel.
Writing this from Uganda
With Love,

-Xo, JK

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